Preparing Yourself For a Psychic Reading

How to Prepare Yourself for a Psychic Reading

 

 

Approach your reading in a way that will help you get the most benefit.

 

So you’ve been thinking about getting a psychic reading?

If you’ve never had a reading before then like most you’re probably a bit on the skeptical side while at the same time nervous about who and what will come through. There are a few things you can do to prepare for your first psychic reading and a few things you can expect!

A psychic reading is not something that you should go into on a whim. Rather, you should spend some time before your reading preparing yourself emotionally and spiritually for the experience ahead of you. One element of this preparation is coming up with questions that you would like to ask the psychic or psychic medium.

This clarifies your expectations and your motivations for the reading, but also helps to structure the reading so you can get more meaning out of it. Knowing what questions to ask and how to ask them helps you to approach your reading in a way that will help you get the most benefit.

 

 

Ask Your Psychic The Right Questions

 

Avoid Overly Simplified Questions

While you should expect to answer questions that are asked by your psychic or psychic medium with a simple “yes” or “no” in order to avoid sharing too much information, these are the types of questions that you should avoid asking during your reading. Not only do these overly simplified questions give you very little in terms of qualification of the reader’s abilities, but they can also create even more questions than you already have. Getting a “yes” or “no” answer leaves you wondering why that is the answer you got, or worried because it wasn’t the answer you wanted, or falsely comforted by getting the answer you wanted without knowing the important reasons behind it.

Your questions should be open-ended to encourage a more detailed answer that allows you to interpret intuited information. The answers should not be a firm end, but rather an opportunity for you to explore concepts and ideas. When asking your reader questions remember that the purpose of your reading is to guide you, not to tell you what to do or why.

 

Don’t Look for Specifics

While a psychic or psychic medium may have heightened abilities to sense or predict things, they cannot truly tell you the specifics of how your life will unfold. Asking questions that are “when”, “where”, or “who” motivated will only leave you with an unsatisfying answer that could cause you to make decisions you wouldn’t generally make just because you were trying to fulfill the predictions in a way that you want.

For example, if you ask how you are going to meet your future spouse, your reader could be able to tell you that you will meet at work. This answer, however, could leave out the important information that you will be changing jobs, that your future spouse isn’t going to be a coworker, or that you will hate him upon first meeting.

 

Focus on Your Behaviors

Rather than looking for simple answers or being told exactly what you should do, focus on questions that guide your behaviors. Utilizing your own perceptions and intuitions is always better than relying solely on the advice or perceptions of a psychic or psychic medium. This allows you to develop your life based on your own needs and feelings rather than forcing decisions and situations based on answers that are up for interpretation.

 

 

You Hold the Power

 

Regardless of what anyone says, psychic or not, we have the power over our own future. The decisions we make and our actions sum up for what will happen to us, and there is no one who can say otherwise.

Even though it may seem that visiting a psychic reader means giving up control over ourselves and the future, it isn’t the case. In fact, what these readings may help us is to find our path, release any unpleasant incidents that may have occurred in the past, and look forward to a brighter future. This is why,it is important to be sure whether you are ready for a reading.

 

 

Do’s and Don’ts for Your Psychic Reading

 

Dos…

» Keep a clear head. Leave all your worries at home, think positive, and don’t put too much pressure on yourself. The magic in all of this is that your positive belief towards life, yourself, and the unknown future. I know that many times, thinking positive is out of the question, but that doesn’t mean you have to bring negative thoughts to upset yourself and affect the decisions you make. Remember, there are “possibilities” in “impossibilities”.

 

» Have your questions ready before you visit the reader. You don’t want to be at loss of words during your session because you’ll only be wasting your and the psychic’s time. A good way to be prepared is to write the questions / concerns on index cards, so you don’t get flustered and forget why you visited the psychic in the first place.

 

» Remember, psychic readings take time and can leave you feeling vulnerable and emotional. So if you can, schedule your appointment on the day when you don’t have a lot to do, work or at home. After the reading, you should try to find some alone time and think about what the reading said, and you can incorporate it into your life.

 

» Clarify any doubts you may have. It’s better that all your concerns and queries be cleared at the reading. Spending unnecessary time and money on the same questions is pointless. You don’t want to dwell on the same issue(s) again and again.

 

Don’ts…

» Expect that the psychic will make the decisions for you. What a psychic does is give you a brief look at what you can expect in the future, if you made certain decisions. If you are looking to seek advice as to what you should do about a particular situation, then you’re taking this whole thing in the wrong light. What you should expect are insights, guidance, and information that can help you make a better decision. You are commander of your life, no one else.

 

» Keep quiet and wait around during your session. If the psychic is giving some information about yourself, your past, or anything that is vital, do let him/her know. If there are any discrepancies, don’t just sit there and let the psychic move on. The reading is for your benefit and you want to make sure that you get the most out of it. There can be times when the psychic might go to a different path, talk about some other topics that he/she may feel are critical and strong enough to talk about. Don’t take this as the wrong thing and see to it that your questions are being addressed.

 

» Visit a psychic if you are going there just to prove them wrong. This will accomplish nothing. Many times, people who are skeptic towards psychic reading tend to withhold information about themselves and want to see if the psychic can somehow know it. You are spending your money and time (also the psychic’s) for the session.

 

» Take any alcohol or drugs before your reading. It is advised that you are absolutely sober, for at least 12 hours before your reading. If you want your psychic to read you properly and accurately, nothing should hinder it; you need to have a clear mind.

 

While understanding and knowing how to prepare for a psychic reading, rest assured that whatever happens during a reading, it will remain confidential. So, even if there are certain things you and the psychic talked about, may be embarrassing or you would like to keep to yourself, you don’t have to worry about the information leaking out.

If you are confused about what questions to ask the psychic reader, focus on what you want out of your life. Are there any issues regarding work, home, love life, or finding a spiritual path. When you think in these terms, searching and discovering answers will be much simpler.

 

 

Examples of General Questions

 

Here are some general questions on general topics such as life, relationship, finance and work that you may want to use in order to help you formulate furthers that will delve deeper into such topics.  Remember that these questions are meant to serve as jump points for discussion, and will help your intuitive zone in and focus on one specific aspect of your life.

 

  • Why am I not happy with my life?

 

  • How can I live a better life, full of purpose and happiness?

 

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  • Is the person I’m currently in a relationship with “The One”?

 

  • How can I make my current romantic relationship even better?

 

  • How will I improve my financial situation?

 

  • Am I on the right career path?

 

  • Is shifting careers a wise move considering the current economic climate?

 

  • How will I improve my health?

 

  • What are the things that I should consider dropping, as they are very stressful to me?

 

  • What do I need to do in order to balance my health, mind and spirit better?

 

If you have other concerns and questions that aren’t on the list, feel free to add it to the list of questions that you want to ask your psychic.

 

 

Final Thoughts

There are many very good, ethical, fair, and honest mediums and psychics, and the service which they can render to the seeking soul is, truly, priceless; but you’re reading will be more satisfying if you do your part to prepare your emotions and your questions.

Getting on the road to making yourself a better person is the first step to improving your situation and views, so it’s great that you’re taking steps to self-improvement.

 

Thanks for visiting and reading …

I hope you found this article comforting and helpful. 

When you are ready to try speaking with a psychic or medium to help you move toward a happier life, try a free reading at Psychic Access;  I recommend Psychic Access because their psychics are tested and verified, and because you can start with a totally free reading to see if it feels right for you.

Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below.

-Laurie

 

Recommended Reading:

Law of Attraction: The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don’t by Michael J. Losier. Read reviews. 

 

Over 40 and Looking for Love

Over 40 and Looking for Love?

 

 

Drop the Excuses to Find the  Wonderful Relationship You Deserve

 

If you are a single woman over 40, you have a love history. You’ve been in relationships before and you may want one now, but for whatever reason you haven’t found the right person yet.

Maybe you’re divorced and frustrated with dating or haven’t ventured back out to the dating pool. You could be a widow and unsure of ever finding another man like your husband. Perhaps you were in a live-in or long-term relationship that ended, so you’re single again.

Finding love the second time around (or even the first) is not easy. Still, people fall in love every day and many of my clients do find that loving man. So what’s the problem?

This might seem harsh, but you are likely telling yourself several lies about love after 40 that are hurting you. These negative beliefs prevent you from connecting, or worse, stop you from even looking.

You might have limiting ideas about dating, love and men, and it’s time to them turn things around. If you expose and transform those beliefs, opportunities will be created for you to find love again!

 

 

Limiting Beliefs: Are These Lies Stuck in Your Head?

 

All The Good Men Are Taken

This belief is very common.  However, thinking about this statistically, there just has to be good single men available since half the adult population in the U.S. is single.

Men get divorced for the same reason women do; they grew apart from their wives, their wives cheated or circumstances just changed. Some men had their heart broken earlier in life and are just recovering and ready now. There are lots of reasons why good men are single and looking for a woman like you.

The fact is that now, more than any other time in history, there are a lot of people in their 40s, 50s and 60s who are single and looking for love. So don’t believe that there are no good men out there!

 

I’ve Already Had My One Shot at Love

Widows often believe this, particularly if they had a wonderful relationship with their husbands. They come away thinking that they will never find such a good man again. But this is exactly the reason why it is possible; if you found great love once, you can certainly do it again. You have the track record for success. Consider your circumstances differently and recognize that you are a magnet for love, since your energy is filled with loving thoughts from your past.

 

Looking For Love is Too Much Work

Dating is tough and you may reach a point when you feel that it is too exhausting and too much effort. But that feeling is just a symptom of your belief that you don’t think it’s possible to find love.

On the other hand, if you really believe that you will find love, then you know every man you meet brings you one step closer to finding the right man for you. Remind yourself that you are on the path to find love and nothing was going to get in your way.  Dating is a process. Be in it to win to find the love you deserve.

 

I’m Picky About Looks

If you feel this way, you will surely be single for a long time! After 40, the chances of Mr. Right knocking on your door are zero. You are going to have to get off the couch and do your part to cross paths with lots of men.

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Dating is a numbers game so the more men you meet, the better your chances for finding the love you want. Will every man you meet be perfect? Of course not! Most of the men you meet will not be right. But you don’t need them to be because you only need one.

In addition, no man is perfect (and neither are you). The perfect man does not exist; he is a myth and a fairy tale. However, there is a man who is the right one for you.

Get over this idea of perfection or you will stay single.

 

You Compare Men to Your BFFs

Seriously? How could a man ever compare to your girlfriends?

Men are not like women! They are dramatically different. We are not brought up the same, we have different innate skill sets and our brains are wired differently. We may be equals, but that does not make us the same.

Expecting a man to be like your girlfriends means he is bound to fail. Most men will never be as thoughtful or have the same depth of understanding as your girlfriends. That doesn’t mean, however, that men don’t have their own amazing contribution to make to your life. The right man expands and enhances your life in ways your girlfriends never will. My advice is to let go of this idea, because it will prevent you from finding the love you want.

 

You Don’t Trust Men

Women who have been burned by a man (or know people who have) tend to believe this, which is understandable.

Consider whether it can really be true that all men are like this. Mathematically, it is just not possible. There are definitely men who do not cheat, lie or refuse to settle down. Many women have found a fabulous, moral guy, who is not like that.

When you believe that all men are terrible, you will look for evidence that your viewpoint is correct. If you believe men are wonderful, you will see examples to support that.

Start looking for examples of quality men and you will notice that they are all around you.

 

 

 

There Aren’t Any Interesting Men (You Can’t be Serious!)

If you haven’t met any interesting men, then you aren’t out there actually meeting men!  Also, many women find nice men to be boring and bad boys to be interesting. Yes, a bad boy’s unpredictable and aloof personality does make him intriguing and you want to unravel the mystery. He becomes a challenge for you to win over. However, a bad boy won’t change his stripes for you and won’t be good relationship material. If you insist on dating bad boys, count on heartbreak and torturous love affairs that do not satisfy.

 

There Aren’t Any Single Men Around

This is similar to the lie that all the good men are taken but with a local spin. Granted, some areas do have more married than single people. But overall, 50% of adult Americans are not hitched, so they must live near you, too.  Your pessimism may have diminished your ability to notice men.

 

Men Don’t Really Want to Be in a Relationship

Let’s refer to the lie about all men being liars, cheaters and players; obviously, generalizations don’t hold much water. While not all men want a long-term relationship, there are certainly some who do.

If you want love, you need to do your part to meet plenty of men and screen them. One way to know if a man is serious about finding love is the way he talks about his life and dating. For example, if the guy you meet mentions moving or how much he loves women, he’s probably not ready settle down. If he says he’s tired of dating, he might be more serious about finding love.

There are definitely men out there who would be thrilled to fall in love with you, but you need to do your part.

 

I Don’t Have Time to Date

This is something women tell themselves constantly. Yes, you are busy. But you make time for what you decide is important.

To find love, you’ll need to make it a priority. Carve time out of your calendar at least once a week to meet new people. If you cannot do that, you don’t really want to find love.

You need to create the space in your schedule to find the love you want. If you say you just don’t have it, I understand. But you also need to admit that love is not a priority for you. There is no shame in that because finding love takes effort and requires a strong desire to take the necessary steps.

 

Get Some Insight

If you’re open to the idea, one of the most important things a psychic can do is help you learn more about yourself, which in turn, will help you be better prepared to look for a mate. Psychics can actually help reveal qualities that you didn’t even know you possessed.

A good psychic can also help you discover what traits in a prospective lover are most important to you, including characteristics that perhaps you never thought about. She can tell you which personality traits will complement your own, and what type of companion will best serve as your other half.

I recommend Psychic Access, because the psychics are all verified and tested, and you can experience a free reading to try it out.

 

 

Final Thoughts

Finding love over 40 can be challenging.  But with an optimistic, proactive attitude on your part, it’s certainly doable – women over 40 are finding successful relationships every day. You can do this!

 

Recommended Reading:

Attract Love at Any Age: The Ultimate Dating Guide for Single Women After 40 by Marlene Wagner. Read reviews.

 

Thanks for visiting and reading …

I hope this article provided you some helpful ideas and a plan to find the love you deserve (whatever age you are!).

I welcome your comments below.

-Laurie

 

 

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Can a Psychic Medium Help You With Grief?

Can a Psychic Medium Help You With Grief?

 

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Spiritual mediums help bridge the gap between the living and those who have passed. 

 

There is no emotion as intense and painful as grief. When you lose someone close, feelings of loss, loneliness and despair are beyond anything you have felt before. Grief is primal, raw, rasping and engulfing. Emotions wash over you uncontrollably. One minute you are empty and dead inside. The next you are full of hatred for the illness, accident, perpetrator or old age that took your loved one from you. The intensity takes your breath away. Many people find comfort in the presence and services of a psychic medium;  a psychic reading can help you grieve, and how it can offer you hope… and the strength to keep going.

When we lose a loved one, our lives change. But it doesn’t have to be a long, never ending dark tunnel. After the shock, confusion, surrealism and deep sadness start to lift as we go through the grief process, there can be rejuvenation–a new lease on life. But it’s important to accept that you’re in a new reality and there is a new relationship with your loved one and a new relationship with yourself.

Meeting or speaking to a psychic medium is one way of taking the first few steps toward acceptance. A good psychic or spiritual (the terms are interchangeable) medium helps you understand your loved one is always near. Even though you cannot feel their physical presence, they are with you. Learning you are wrapped in love is comforting beyond measure. Knowing that you will always be connected is so reassuring. Somehow, you receive the strength to carry on with your life and even begin to feel good about it.

 

 

 

When is the Right Time for a Psychic Reading?

 

It’s best to wait a little while before contacting a psychic reader. At the very beginning, you might feel you need to cling to some remnant or spirit of the one who has died. Yet, now, you may not be able to listen to the message. Give it some time – how long is dependent upon how you are feeling. Once you feel ready to make contact, you will know it.

If you can wait until the rawness and shock that comes from a death has settled a little then you and the spirit communicator will be able to build a much more stable bridge of love between the two worlds and the medium’s work will be much more accurate and evidential. Try to wait at least three months before setting out on your spiritual quest. And remember that sometimes it can take a long time to get the absolute proof you need that life continues after death but persevere as you will eventually get the comforting proof you need.

One thing you shouldn’t do is become addicted to psychic readings. Some people live their lives through readings and become completely immersed in the spirit world. They are wholly focused on their next ‘fix’. Unless you are a medium yourself, you should avoid this. You still have a life to live in this world.

In the same vein, you should also avoid hopping from one psychic to another. Each will have their own style and you could become confused and disillusioned. Create a good relationship with one, possibly two, but no more than that.

 

 

 

Frequency of Readings

 

If you are wanting to touch base with your loved one; making sure all is well with them, once or twice a year is fine. Of course, it depends on the individual. Some have written books and websites about their experiences with the psychic world, so are happy to have an ongoing dialogue. As long as it doesn’t become an addiction, as described above, there’s no problem in keeping in touch as necessary.

Anniversaries, Christmas, birthdays and Valentines are good occasions to have a psychic reading. But don’t book a reading for someone else because you think it will make a great surprise gift for them. It may well be exactly what they want, but do ask them first.

 

 

 

Steps to Ease Your Spirit As You Grieve

 

Surrender

We can’t control the fact that we’ve lost someone we love. And we can’t bring them back. But we can move forward into a more peaceful state of being. Surrendering is letting go of the pain (even for a moment) so you can live in the present. It knows that something bigger than ourselves is protecting us.

Whenever you feel that wave of grief, surrender to it. When you’re overwhelmed, see the word “surrender” in your mind’s eye. Say, “I surrender” to yourself.  This will act as a reminder to let go for a moment.

 

Forgive Yourself

You may have guilt around your loved one’s death. You may feel responsible, blaming yourself for not doing enough. We must remember that this was their life’s path. To move through the grief it is important to forgive yourself so you can free yourself to heal.

 

Connect With Your Loved Ones

If you are open to the idea that their spirit is alive, there are many ways to connect with your loved one. Going to a Spiritual Medium is a great way to do that. Many have found solace in the messages they receive from their loved one on the “other side.” 

You can also connect with them on your own, in your daily life. The key is to send them love and light energy. As you heal yourself through the grieving process you may find a deeper connection to your loved one. There may be signs and messages that occur. Stay open and aware. Talk to your loved one. They want to connect with you if your heart is open.

 

Nurture Yourself

It is so important to take care of yourself. Take time to take care of YOU. Remember you are still here and there is life ahead of you. There is joy to be experienced. Do the things that make you the happiest right now. Even if it’s something small like going for a walk, watching a favorite movie over and over, or making your favorite dish and eating it with a loved one.

 

Meditate

There is nothing more powerful we can do than meditation. It quiets the mind, energizes the soul and creates a more peaceful state of being. It can be the anchor that gets you through your day. Find a meditation that works for you. From Passage Meditation to Transcendental Meditation. Try and practice it every day even if it’s for a few minutes. Start with 5 or 10 minutes. And work up to longer sessions or more frequent sessions.

 

Dream of Them

When you go to sleep ask your loved one to visit you in your dreams. Think about them. Send them love. It is thought that when we dream of our loved ones who have passed on, it is their way of communicating with us.

 

Create

Keep a journal, write and recite poetry, paint a picture, take a photograph, make jewelry, sculpt, sing, act, even create a memory book of your loved one. Whatever your creative passion or interest is, tap into it. Even if it’s a very small creative project. Creating connects us to our deeper selves. That’s where the healing is.

 

Garden

Gardening is giving life. The process of watering and nurturing is healing. Watching a plant or a garden grow will create a peaceful state of mind. You can even grow your loved one’s favorite plant of flower. Talk to your loved one while you are gardening. Feel their presence.

 

Exercise

When we exercise, it releases endorphins, which expedites feelings of happiness. Find an exercise you love to do. The deep breathing associated with exercise can also release pent up sadness and trigger tears that need to come out. It’s a healthy sign to emote and can help get you through the grieving process.

 

Ritualize

Creating ritual around the memory of a loved one is a powerful way to keep them with us. After all, that’s what most of us want. We miss them. We want to feel their presence. The ritual can be whatever you want it to be. It can be an altar-like corner in your home. Or you can create an “active altar” by doing an activity as you remember them. Perhaps something they loved to do. Or you both loved to do together.

 

Pray

Asking for guidance and support is important now. Prayer is a powerful way to attain that. Remember when you pray, don’t just say words in a rote fashion, feel your feelings. That is where the power is. Just the practice of saying a prayer can help navigate your grieving because it is an action step and a tool toward healing.

 

Get Support

Getting outside help from bereavement groups and therapists is important and can help you deal with the stages of grief. It’s especially important if you find yourself in an ongoing depression. This is a fragile time and it’s essential that you seek the help you need.

 

Final Thoughts

You will never “get over” the loss (don’t let anyone tell you that you will). This is an experience that will live with you for the rest of your life. But you can take this difficult time and create a positive outcome. You can find a way to put your loss and the memory of your loved in a special place in your heart that you carry with you from this moment on.

To move beyond your grief can be a journey of self-discovery– to see yourself and your life in a new way. But, the way to move through and beyond the grief process requires that you are open and that you take action.

Remember. This is YOUR journey. This is a time to explore who YOU are. The grief you are experiencing does ease with time. And take all the time you need to get through this life challenge. Be gentle with yourself. Surround yourself with positive, loving people and great experiences. And you may find that your heart has opened to a wonderful new life as you carry the memory of your loved one forever.

 


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Thanks for visiting and reading …

I hope you found this article comforting and helpful. 

When you are ready to try speaking with a psychic medium to help you find peace with your loss, try a free reading at Psychic Access;  I prefer Psychic Access because their psychics are tested and verified, and because you can start with a totally free reading to see if it feels right for you.

Let me know what you think in the comments below.

 

-Laurie

 

 

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